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¿Gordo?

Why Spanish speakers call the people they love fat, skinny and old.

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Gordo

It means fat. Partners in Mexico, Colombia, Bolivia and Chile use it to mean my love.

Source: the academies' dictionary of American Spanish.

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Gordito

Uruguay's language academy says the person called gordito does not need to be overweight.

The small ending -ito helps make it tender.

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Countries where viejo or vieja, old one, can mean husband or wife.

Negro or negra can mean your partner in 10.

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Flaca

It means skinny. In Peru, flaco or flaca can mean a romantic partner.

In Chile, Paraguay, Argentina and Uruguay, flaco is a casual way to address a young person.

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Negrito

In 2020, Edinson Cavani wrote gracias negrito to a friend. England's FA banned him for 3 matches.

Uruguay's academy said the word could only be affectionate there.

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Negrita

In Peru, a dessert brand called Negrita was renamed Umsha.

One Afro-Peruvian parent in a 2023 study said negrita is used as a put-down.

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Corazón

It means heart. A 2019 study warns it can offend a stranger.

Above all when a man says it to a woman he doesn't know.

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Mi cielo

My sky. The RAE lists it as a term of affection. Mi vida, my life, works the same way.

These never name the body.

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Escucha

Start with mi cielo and mi vida. Use gordo only after someone uses it with you.

Listen first.

Tap for the full table, the sources and the safe ones to start with.

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